As far as I can tell:
Thoughtful experts refer to gaseous H2O as “water vapor” even in situations where it is nowhere near being in equilibrium with any condensed phase. Meteorology is one example, where we speak of various amounts of water vapor in the atmosphere. Astronomy is an even more extreme example, where congregations of cosmic H20 molecules are called interstellar water vapor. Since the dawn of time, these particular H2O molecules have been nowhere near saturated vapor pressure. Nobody ever speaks of water gas. | This is the perfect illustration of rule (b). Technically and officially, “water” refers to the H2O molecule in any phase (gas, liquid, or solid) ... but unofficially by long tradition “water” connotes the liquid unless otherwise specified. Water is normally a liquid. |
If you smell fumes in the garage, you call it gasoline vapor, not gasoline gas. | This is another illustration of rule (b). Unofficially, gasoline is normally presumed to be a liquid unless otherwise stated. Therefore the gaseous phase is called vapor, even in situations where the partial pressure is nowhere near the saturated vapor pressure. |
You can fill balloons from a tank of helium gas. It would sound quite weird to call it helium vapor. | The gas phase is considered normal for helium, and in this case there is no liquid or solid anywhere in sight. |
In contrast, you can produce temperatures below 2K if you start with liquid helium and pump the vapor away fast enough. | This is the perfect illustration of rule (a). The gas is called vapor to hint at the presence of the nearby liquid. |
Thoughtful experts commonly refer to the “SVP” (Saturated Vapor Pressure) to designate a vapor that is in equilibrium with a nearby condensed phase. | This proves that rule (a) cannot be the whole story; otherwise the word “Saturated” would be redundant. |